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Mummy’s Birthday

November 13, 2009 · 1 Comment

Had intended to bring my Mummy out for lunch to celebrate her birthday on Wednesday. But I did not manage to because like me, Mummy ended up with a sore throat that day and she didn’t feel like going to any places. 

Thankfully, Dearie had bought a Mango cake and we celebrated for her on Sunday. Though I would not say that this is much of a celebration as Mummy’s eyes were glued on watching the Taiwan drama on Channel 8. :|

And me being the nice daughter I always am, stayed at home and accompanied her. Mummy obviously didn’t waste the day and even taught me how to cook fish porridge. :)

Mummy: 有时候要自己煮。不要整天吃外面的食物,不健康,知道吗?所以要学煮一点。

天下的妈妈都是一样的. Always worried about their children. :)

It was raining then. A cheeky me decided to disturb her.

Me: Mummy, 今天你 birthday,就下雨。你 stingy lei.

Mummy turned around and scolded me.

Mummy: 你要死!没死过!没大没小!(-.-”’)

Though I didn’t manage to bring my Mummy out for lunch, I still like to savour the feeling of staying at home to accompany her. Basically indulging in the feeling of being Mummy’s little girl really makes my day. I guess it makes Mummy’s day as well. :)

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The Husband’s Birthday

November 3, 2009 · 9 Comments

[Written by Eric Sim]

Fans of this blog should be estatic about this entry.  The Husband seldom contribute a blog entry and hence, this is a rare event.  I am going to blog about my 29th birthday. 

I kind of guessed that Dear would have some form of celebration installed for me, but really have no clue.   Some days before the birthday – Dear : “I will have invigilation till 10am on your birthday.  Would you come and pick me up at 10am?”.  Me: “Hmmm, I will consider la”.  Dear: “Come la.”.  Me: “Okay”. 

As usual, I was very busy with work and was expecting to work late on the day before my birthday.  I wanted to go on leave with minimal disruption to the progress of work.  I worked till 8pm, and the progress was slow, so I “tabao” back some work to do.  On the way back home, I decided to stop over at Siglap for dinner and at the same time, continued with the unfinished work.  It was good progress, and I drove back happily.  When I was back at my carpark, my phone ringed.  It was Dear.

Dear: “Hey, where are you now?”.  Me: “Back at my carpark”.  Dear: “Why did you ignore my messages?”.  Me: “Did I?  I didn’t see them.  I’ll call you when I’m back home.”.  Dear: “Okay”.  I checked my sms and indeed, Dear left 2 messages, one on the “sian-ness of doing work review” and the other, a follow up of my apparent indifference to her first message. 

As I opened my house door, it was dark, Pa was sitting on the sofa and surprise! Dear was there with me mother holding my birthday cake with 1 lit candle.   I was genuinely taken aback (I repeated said “kia1 si1 nang1″ after that).  This cheeky girl bought and collected the birthday cake from Crystal Jade, had my father-in-law send her down, “Ba kat” with my parents to be around, and cleverly calculated my time of return.  This plan was so detailedly laid out and executed that it would make PM Lee’s economic recovery plan look simple…Well, I requested for a birthday song (as usual) and the line was from Dear, and Mother finished it.  The tiramisu cake was simply delicious and I would recommend it.  Picture attached to whet the appetite of the readers.Me Birthday Cake

The reader should take note that there was only 1 candle and Dear said this is to avoid revealing my “old age”.  Haiz, 其实,我三十还有得找. 

Next, the birthday card.  Sorry, the content is SIC (Staff In Confidence), but I will let the reader look at the cover – it is hilarious .

DSCF5071 For the record, Dear assured me that she will not say this to me.  Blogs have a wonderful intrinsic characteristic of being in eternal existence – I am safe.  The next step is to find the doctor to say the above line.

The birthday present.  It’s a watch! Professional and handsome watch.  The details of this watch shall not be revealed here, the reader may come up to me to admire my watch.  The most important thing is that this is given to me by me Dear and represents a lot to her and me. 

The birthday day.  It is spent leisurely, with a brunch at Coffee bean (smoked salmon sandwich and turkey bacon cheese sandwish, washed down with English breakfast tea). (Can we do this every weekday?)    Movie at Cathay – my choice here – This Is It. - the movie on the MJ concert that will never take place.  Dear accompanied me to watch this despite knowing that she’ll be bored by it.  Went to Seiko to repair my old watch, and dropped by Ngee Ann City Civic Plaza to see the last 2 contestants of the Subaru challenge.  I thought of eating ice cream and maybe brushing teeth in front of them, but decided against it for fear of retribution.  Dinner at the famous crab place (coffeeshop at junction of Still Rd and Joo Chiat Pl), which I had been wanting to try but had put it off for at least 4 years. 

The birthday of The Husband was fantastic.  The Husband could not have asked for more.

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My “Nice” 老公…

October 21, 2009 · 5 Comments

I have been feeling rather contented and cheerful lately. Nothing for me to feel sad about. Even better, when I do not have to see my students at all because they are having their post-exams activities. :D

And when I’m happy, I tend to think of food. Today, I am thinking of sashimi, sushi, crabs, Peranakan food and what have you. And I have been bingeing non-stop in school. SHIT! :|

A message to 老公 this morning, lamenting to him that I might grow fatter than him due to my bingeing recently, thinking he might soothe me by saying otherwise — only to see his reply:

“Your 老公 is quite thin, so you have got a high standard to keep up to if you wanna stay thinner. So sorry.”

(-.-”’) What the @#$%^!#^&^!

That’s my 老公 of 4 days for you.

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Officially A Mrs now…

October 19, 2009 · 19 Comments

As of yesterday, I am officially Mrs Sim now. Woke up this morning to see a ring stuck on my fourth finger of my left hand. It feels strange to wake up and realise that I am married. Guess I am still not use to the fact that I am already married. Major changes that took place:

1) Dearie became my 老公 overnight.

Sian’s blog post flashed into my mind after my solemmisation yesterday. I looked at a grinning Dearie and still feels that he is 100% boyfriend. Still the same old guy that I started dating a year ago. Only difference? We both had rings stuck to our fourth finger and promises that bind us together.

2) Having a new set of parents.

Guess I still need some time to get use to all these major changes in my life now. :)

Am extremely delighted to receive Xuan, Wenjing and Ting’s congratulatory messages the night before. Love you gals! :)

Had our solemmisation at Sze Chuan Dou Hua Restaurant with Prof Teo as our JP. Seriously, I could recommend that place for ROM. Extremely nice environment, good service plus good food.

The week leading up to our solemmisation, Dearie and I had a debate as to whether we should synchronise our wedding vows. That boy insisted that we should while I was adamant that we should not. To me, vows are supposed to be the promise that one makes to your other half and hence should be personalised. Dearie even did a poll with his colleagues and nontheless to say, I won hands down, with 80% of his colleagues agreeing with me. I thought this debate was over — only to have the JP telling us on the day itself that it is better for us to synchronise our marriage vows. You should have seen the smug look on Dearie’s face then. We ended up synchronising our marriage vows and me reading the vow that Dearie wrote, with a few added lines from my own.  

The solemmisation happened so fast and within half an hour, it was over, with the JP pronouncing us as man and wife. Prof Teo concluded the whole solemmisation by reminding us to remember the promises we have made to each other. And then, my 老公 Dear mumbled a soft question to the JP, “Don’t I get to kiss the bride?” The room bursted into laughter. I was embarrassed like hell and well, Dearie got his wish.

Received Evelyn’s congratulatory message later in the afternoon, asking how we celebrate our post-solemmisation. So what did we do?

We headed back to Dearie’s house as I do not want to invite unwanted attention to my hairdo. Basically, Mr Sim indulged in his favourite past-time – sleeping while I indulged in mine – watching TV. The dinner we had to celebrate our post solemmisation? We had MacDonald’s. Wow… What a way to end the day. Haha.. :D

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Chatting with Mummy Dear

September 28, 2009 · 10 Comments

I spend my lazy Sunday afternoon yesterday, marking away furiously. Mummy Dear came by and chat with me after she was done with her housework. (Did I mention that I can multi-task very well? :) )

I was listening to some songs then and “Always be my Baby” happened to be playing at that time. I promptly asked her if this song is suitable for my march-in for my wedding next year.

She listened intently then shook her head and said:

Mummy: This song is boring. 你应该用 “今天你要嫁给我”. 那首很好听!人家听了会很开心!用这首!

Me: 很 overplay loh. This is more boring loh.

Mummy: Where got? You got no taste.

(-.-”’) Though Mummy can be really strict with us, she can be quite lame at times as well. This is one good example. Haha…

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Surprise Visit from Dearie

September 17, 2009 · 5 Comments

Dearie never fails to drop me a call every night to catch up on our daily happenings. Yesterday night, I decided to drop him a message first since I was too tired and I refused to go look at the shit I bought back from work (wonder why I bought it back in the first place).

Anyway, the message I got from Dearie caught me by surprise.

Dearie: Can I come look for my Dear instead? Will be at your house in 5 mins.

I called him immediately and his response of “have something to deliver to your house” left me mystified.

He arrived a while later and happily thrust me a box of mooncake from Hyatt Hotel.

Me: Its 八月十五 alr? No what?! Still 七月what!

Dearie: I feel like eating. Bought for you all as well.

That silly boy! Already so tired from work and still make a special trip down to deliver the mooncake.

辛苦你了!We will enjoy the mooncake! Love you! :)

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Our First

August 23, 2009 · 4 Comments

Weekends has somehow become a busy period for me now – so much so that my running regimen on Sunday was put to a halt temporarily. I was determined to get back to my running regimen today. And Dearie was sweet enough to suggest that we run together. :) Our enthusiasm was met with dismay as it rained today. :(

Nonetheless, the rainy weather did not diminish our mood to run. We enroute to the gym instead of the stadium as planned initally.  After I paid the entrance fee, we proceed to the second level where the gym was situated. And then, I make a silly blunder which I feel extremely lousy and embarassed about – till now.

 On our way up, I saw the rubbish bin and promptly threw the receipt away. I swear that it is an honest blunder. I honestly did not know that I have to retain the receipt, which is required to be produce to the guy manning the gym on the second level. Upon reaching the glass door and seeing the file of people queuing to produce their receipt, I yelped, turned around and proclamied to Dearie that I have threw the receipt away. Dearie’s face contorted with mock horror as he stared at me stunned –  in disbelief.

We ran back to the bin and Dearie was the one to rummage through the bin. I stand by and tried to identify the receipt as Dearie did not want me to get my hands dirty. Thankfully, the litter in the bin was relatively few and hence we managed to find the receipt after a while.

Honestly, I was expecting Dearie to scream at me then when I confessed to throwing away the receipt. Instead, he was quite cool with the situation and even did the unthinkable – rummaging through the bin so that I don’t have to perform this dirty job. We had a good laugh about it after that.

I was really touched by what Dearie did. I didn’t expect such an amicable outcome. Could it be some other guy, I will probably be glared at and blasted for making such a silly mistake. Instead, Dearie handle the whole blunder like what a doting boyfriend could do. And my apology message to him later got me smiling away when he replied with “These are the little stories that makes our life interesting” as well as “You can continue to throw things away – I’ll promise to continue to volunteer to pick them up”. Make my day brighter admist the gloomy weather and my heart swell with love for this guy even more. I am glad he is the one. :)

Nonetheless, after this incident, I promise not to throw things away unless I am very ceratin that it can be discard of. I couldn’t want my dearie to rummage through another rubbish bin because of my silly blunder again. :D

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UP

August 11, 2009 · 9 Comments

Managed to catch the movie “UP” over the weekend. Thought it will be just like any cartoon – funny plot with crappy dialouge.

Up (3d)

Somehow, the movie turns out differently. I like this movie. I find it very heartwarming and endearing. Talks about love between married couple as well as dreams and ambition. I hope my hubby will be like the old guy, Carl, in the movie. Still love his wife so much even after her death. The thing that touch me the most? He tries to fulfill her wish, though the unfulfilled wish seems like an impossible task to him.

It also make me think about what I really want to do in life apart from getting married and having kids. Funny, this has been what Dearie has been telling  me all along. I must really sit down during the december holidays and think about the things I really want to do in life…

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My Family

August 5, 2009 · 10 Comments

Took these family photos after little brother’s commencement.

Family 3

family 2

My love ones! :)

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COCKROACH!

July 16, 2009 · 10 Comments

Since the toilet in my parent’s room is not in use, it has become a changing room for my mum and myself. Yesterday night, I did my usual preparation before I go to bed. Took out the clothes that I am going to wear for the next day so that I can hang it in the toilet.

A small, dark form in my parents’ room, parked inches away from the doorway, stopped me dead in my track. Xuan’s blog pop into my mind instantly. I find the situation so hilarious when I was reading her blog. Now that the damn cockroach is right in front of me, I don’t find it as funny anymore. :(

Unlike Xuan, I do not have the courage to even look at the damn thing. I did what I usually do – I ran out screaming: 有蟑螂! I think I am luckier than Xuan because my parents are not asleep yet.

Armed with a can of Shiedox and a broom, my parents scrambled into the room to try and catch that damn thing. My mother tried her hand at killing the damn thing by spraying at it. Unfortunately, that damn creature actually flew and landed on their bed. Now, that is disgusting! I hope I don’t have to sleep on a bed which has been scarmbled across by a cockroach before.

Anyway, my brother who is standing nearby, did something out of extraordinary. He actually used his bare hand to catch the damn thing… literally. On a side note, he has a plastic bag over his hand. However, to me, he did such a brave thing. The little boy who use to run screaming with me, the little boy who use to use me as his shield whenever such creatures are in sight can evolved into someone so brave. That very night, my impression of him went a notch higher. My Hero! :D

I went to re-look at Xuan’s blog and I have to totally agree with her. The criteria that my husband has to be brave enough to catch any bugs or disgusting creature is STILL VALID AND EXTREMELY IMPORTANT. I don’t think I want my husband to run screaming along with me.

Dearie… Are you looking at this?  Please morph yourself into some super bug or creatures’ destroyer / catcher. I will love you even more for this. :)

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